One was a fair complexioned petite female Aaliya. Meanwhile our group extended from two to four. I guess, each girl owns a mental device that accurately updates them about the boys insane for them but whatever i grabbed this opportunity to register myself in her good books. Although for the first few weeks we were nothing more than just a batch mate but eventually we collaborated to discuss numerical problems,definitely i approached her and she agreed. Result was declared in a month and we landed in the same batch. Although my friend Abhishek believed that i longed only for her outer dimension,her body and i supposed the very same way for him. Moreover I was an introvert,so it was a kind of perfect match. I was smart,tall,handsome,very well built yet composed and calm who had fallen madly for Aastha. I am Tushar,must not sing my own praising rhymes but don't you know i will,after all i myself built this one. Oh! spare me in all her praise i forgot to mention myself,don't you know a lover's heart? You know right. Her gorgeous wide pearly eyes had always captivated my heart,soul and had left me pleasantly stunned more than a million times. On her left cheek was a dark black mole which resembled a star twinkling on clear magnificent sky alike face. She was possessor of thin chiseled figure,a perfectly toned waist and marvellous face which had the charm and power to seize even most callous Hitler's heart. If possible, be specific about when."I love you." This was forty eighth time i had uttered out these three magical words,bent down on knees rehearsing to propose Aastha,a cute chirpy girl rarely snooty but fun loving character. If you run out of time before you both feel complete with the conversation, try to create an agreement to resume it at another time. Thank your partner for accepting your request to talk and find something positive to acknowledge him or her for. Remember: Not disagreeing with someone does not mean that you agree with them. Rather than making your partner wrong ("That's not what happened") let them know your perspective, such as "The way I remember it was." And keep in mind that it's likely that there's some truth and some distortion in each of your perspectives. Resist the temptation to take issue with something you disagree with. The more complete they feel with what they have to say, the more open and interested they'll be in what you have to say.
Let the other person finish what they're saying before you take your turn. Express your feelings and thoughts rather than your opinions, criticism, judgment, or advice.
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Give the other person your full attention! Whenever possible, turn off the TV, don't answer the phone, don't be available to others, put down the newspaper, and avoid multitasking like driving, working, or emailing while you're speaking to each other. If it's not, then try to come up with a mutually agreed-upon time that works for both of you. Check in with your partner to see if this is a good time to talk. Be clear within yourself about the experience you wish to create through your communication and acknowledge that to both yourself and to your partner. If that is what you are looking for, here are a few tips: Talking, as distinct from communicating, doesn't necessarily produce the experience of interconnectedness. In Deborah Tannen's bestselling book, You Just Don't Understand, she refers to these two modes as "report talk and rapport talk."
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